In Memory Of LUSHINGTON, Sheila

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Visitation Information

Kane & Fetterly Funeral Home
5301 Decarie Blvd.
Montreal, Quebec
March 16, 2018
14:00 - 17:00 / 19:00 - 21:00

Service Information

St. Luke
106A Anselme-Lavigne Blvd.
Dollard des Ormeaux, Quebec
March 17, 2018
11:00
LUSHINGTON, Sheila, Armine (Marolly)
Sheila Marolly, passed away on March 9, 2018.
Beloved and cherished wife of the late Melville Lushington. Devoted mother of Terence (Sonia) Grandmother of Mervin, Kevin, Stephanie, Clayton, great grandchildren and dear sister of late Brian (Dolores) and late Desmond (Alice). She will be sadly missed by her nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews, great grandnieces, great grandnephews and many friends.
Visitation at the Kane Fetterly Funeral Home, 5301 Decarie Blvd. (corner of Isabella) on Friday, March 16 from 2 pm to 5 pm and 7 pm to 9 pm. Funeral Mass at St. Luke's Church 106A Anselme-Lavigne Blvd., Dollard des Ormeaux, on Saturday, March 17 at 11 am. family will receive condolences from 10 am in church. Interment Field of Honour, Pointe-Claire.

Messages for the Family of LUSHINGTON, Sheila

From: Stephanie Staicu & Family, Delilah Lushington, Vera Ghosh

In Loving Memory of my Nana, Sheila LUSHINGTON:
May the memories we cherish remain in our hearts forever. Nana, you will be reunited together with your loving husband (our grandpa).
Remembering Nana today and always. May God bless you and may your soul be at peace.
Lots of Love,
Constantin, Stephanie, Michael and baby Staicu
Delilah Lushington and Vera Ghosh
From: Tom n Nimmi

I wish the entire family my heartfelt condonlences n Peace n Comfort at this difficult time
From: Francis Gomes

Accept my deepest sympathy may her soul RIP
From: Ebenezer and Melani

Please accept our sincere condolences on your time of great loss. May God comfort you.
From: Richard

We are going to miss you. But it's uncle's turn to enjoy your company.
From: Wasim Jsfri

One of the best Mom ever I remember her from my school days when Terrance her son and I were very close friends May Allah bless her in Paradise for ever Ameen
From: David Hickey

A memory of a mother stays with us always .Bright and Loving.
From: AHSAN R. QURESHI

Terrance,
When someone you love become a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May your memories give u peace and comfort.
From: Paulette LeBlanc

Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow! 🙏🙏my she RIP. May the Angels watch over her
From: Margo

They say when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure and truly Aunty’s memories will be treasured by me forever. I can never forget the warm love and wise advice Aunty would give, always treating me like a daughter with her endless kind words, going back as far as my school-going days in Pakistan. I will always miss her but then now heaven has another angel and I have a second guardian angel.
From: Oliver John

Dear Terry

I would like to extend my deepest condolences not only for myself but from our entire John family .
May your mom soul rest in peace and may he give you all strength during these ever so sad times.

Love and Blessings to you and your entire family.
Oliver John
From: Kiran

Please accept my deepest condolences, God bless her soul and may she rest in peace. My prayers are with you!
From: Norma Rego

My sincere sympathies to on the passing away of your darling Mum, dear Terry and Sonia. I will miss her immensely as she was one of a kind. I have a lot of cherished memories of Our time spent together. I wish I could have a memory like hers !Wow! She was one knowledgeable beautiful lady. She has earned her rest. May her soul rest in peace. I love you "Mum"A. Sheila.
From: Mark Petschel

My deepest condolences Terrence. She is a beautiful lady. who has and great son! Just remember sShe will be around you always!
From: Jean Ramautor

Dear Terrence
Just want you to know, we're thinking of you and Sonia at this time .We are sorry for your loss
From: Noreen jahan's Francis

Our sincere condolences to you and rest of the family. RIP.
From: Ana Buzdugan

Hi Terrance, I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences.
From: Clement Khemraj

Our deepest condolences to you and family for the greatest of your Dear Mom. Also to all your Siblings, Relatives and loved ones.
Always,
Your Friend,
Clement & Family
From: Lorraine Webb

May your mum always be an inspiration to whoever she knew. She loved life and lived it with fervour. I'm sure she's got everyone in heaven going too.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!

Lorraine, Nathan and Tiff!!!
From: Lauretta thompson

My darling “muma” as u used to say when u left me a voice message. How I miss u. I listen to your voice messages tht r still on my phone n I recall with tears running down my face, all the happy hours we spent over the phone: you in Canada n I in the US. But to us, distance did not make a difference. We talked n laughed n I sang to u n u filled me in with the words when I forgot them n the hours would pass ... n suddenly my phone would die out. N I’d hv to recharge it 😀

Mum dear you were the youngest old person I’ve known. I could tell U anything n nothing shocked u.

U could hv a bawdy sense of humor n u were never offended if I was so upset about something tht I vented to u with a few cus words.

R short times together when I visited u in Canada were precious to me n I know they meant a lot to u too.
I always wished I lived closer so I could b there to love n care fr you better.

Mum darling u were the mother I never had. But u always said tht you would b with me even after you passed. I believe u r here with me now.

Though u often thru the years thought u were useless - bound to a wheel chair. At the mercy of others to lift you bathe n change the clothes, I believe you were wrong:

Through all the humiliation you felt because u were a very shy n private person, all u did show to all, was graciousness n gratitude.

From your wheel chair u radiated kindness n care fr those around u. U never let a caregiver pass by without a “Tk u my darling” or a “god bless you my child”

Even the meanest caregiver in time had to realize n change the way they were. You were a beautiful silent example of “actions speak louder than words”

You loved God n was ever faithful to the Mass.

You loved the hymn Amazing Grace. N mum, what amazing grace you had.

It is said that what’s inside of us comes out when r buttons r pressed. N you have gone through so much these last years: from living independently to being bedridden. From being able to give to others freely to having to ask for help n listen to some caregivers show impatience or be rough in their handling of you. Yes your buttons were pressed more than a few times.

But all that came out of you was gentleness n thanks. I try to b more like you n I thank you my mother.

Silently n alone U bore the sorrow when your brothers passed on. You wanted to go too. Now all of u r together. U r at last with yr darling mother n the husband you have loved n been faithful to all these years n I’m sure he’s singing this his favorite song to his darling wife: “Let me Call you sweet heart ... I’m in love with you...”😀

I will always miss you my mum but I am so happy for you. No more are u bound to a chair or bed. You r a glorious new You in a state of eternal love n happiness in Gods presence. How lucky you are. I am so proud to have known you. So proud that you called me your daughter. So proud you were for a short but wonderful time, My Mother.
Lauretta
From: Shereen Sheobilas

Sorry for your loss !! Mother’s are the greatest !!! We will always miss them , Time heals my love and prayers are with you and your family !!!!
From: Clayton Lushington

I only remember Nana smiling and laughing. She was the most positive influential person I know with a unique gift to brighten up any room, place and person; even when it seemed impossible! She helped me see a bit of heaven.. on earth.
From: Blanche, Antonio, Aaron and Amber Da Costa

Dear Terry and family,
Fond memories are what we have to remember our dearly departed Aunty Sheila who we considered our mother. We were truly blessed to have known such an amazing and wonderful person, who had a heart of 'Gold' and who was the most kind, patient and generous human being that we met. Please accept our condolences and just know that we are here for you and please do not hesitate to reach out, especially during this difficult time. We will miss her very, very dearly.
Yours,
Blanche, Antonio, Aaron and Amber
From: Sylvio Tomasi

Dear Terrence,
A mother like God and Jesus gave you life now your mom an Angel of God will continue to send you unlimited blessings as her soul rest's in peace.
Your friend,
Sylvio
From: Alan, Yolande, Carl and Clive

A. Sheila was an inspiration to all she met along the way through her life's journey. She has touched the hearts of many who will dearly miss her. May she enjoy eternal rest and shower her blessings from above on all of us she left behind. May her soul rest in peace.
From: Terence Lushington

To my MOM ,
Sheila to others and Aunty Sheila to many .
I thank all of you and family and read all your gifts of personal moments and words shared with mom present or in the far past and all I can add if you had not followed her journey's ups and owns in the last 15 years you would not feel the passion of her growth in her humanity and her close to death multiple experiences and how the hand of our Lord touched with Jesus,Padri Peo,St Anthony,Mother Mary, our Pope and all who she prayed too would miraculously bring her back for a new beginning.
Even away from mom in Toronto I shared time daily with her after her 10 am Mass and being at the hospital when she fell ill and singing to her and with her was so uplifting.
With her live angels Alan and Yolande on her left and right side I was always assured of her safety.
These are moments that make you choke and swallow and feel the bond of love and I wish and pray that we all share that with someone in our lives.
My eulogy summed my complete mom and upon request I would be honoured to share her life with you for as at some point she had touched you with HER! moments of love,wit,sharing,caring ,wisdom and compassion.
My moms passing was all according to her wishes and as fate might have it the whole procession passed by all her old residences she lived in bidding her last farewell.
She always loved having the touch of Irish in us and she was buried on St Patricks Day with a complete private ceramony at The National Field Of Honour on Saturday.
In moms memory and her words she would have wanted nothing more then to extend all love and kisses to all who attended and those who payed her farewell.
( LIFE IS NOT ABOUT THE AMOUNT OF BREATH'S WE TAKE,BUT ABOUT THE MOMENT THAT TAKES ONE'S BREATH AWAY !)
I hope you all got that moment to share with my beloved Mother who has joined Dad in the kingdom of Heaven
Stay Well and Blessed
From: John K

My sincere condolences to the entire family. Terence, your mother was an exceptional lady that radiated a rare natural sense of warmth and kindness.
From: carrol verasamy

Dear Terrence,
oh your beautiful mom!! I remember the first time I met her and how much I loved her instantly. Her infectious laugh, her enthusiasm for life, her love of all things good, were all evident. You were so fortunate to have her in your life. Be blessed and know that she is at peace and will always be watching over you. Love always from Richard and Carrol , Nick, Jordan and Rachel xoxo
From: Frank Hue

My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. May God give you the comfort and peace that you seek and may the soul of your loved one rest in peace.
Sincerely, Frank Hue
From: Francine Drubick

So sorry for your loss Terrrance. I know that you are are wonderful son. You mother did a awesome job and I know that she was blessed and lucky to have you in her life.
From: Giorgio Heidary

Dear Terry,
Dear Terry, Please accept our heartiest Condolences and our thoughts are with you and your Family. In Loving Memory of mother, Sheila LUSHINGTON: may the memories you cherish, remain in your hearts forever and may Sheila, rest in peace.
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From: Ralph Idema

May your parents rest in peace, Terence, and with the good genes and character they left you, may you have a long and fruitful life so that I can be your friend for a long time.
From: Noel and Annette Rodriguez

We will always remember you Aunty Sheila as a most wonderful and beautiful person who had a very special way to make someone else feel great. You always handled yourself with dignity and grace, and are assured that you will continue to do so in your new home in Heaven.
In loving memory,
Noel and Annette Rodriguez (and family)
From: Ruby and Adrian

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your mom. May her should Rest In Peace. We both pray that god gives you and Sonia the strength and courage to bear this loss. She was a wonderful and caring person and I will never forget her.
From: Nasim

Dear Terence and family I was so saddened to hear about Aunty Lushington,as one who too has lost a loved one I understand the difficult time you and the family are going through there is nothing any body can say that can alleviate the pain and sorrow "what we once enjoyed we can never lose all that we loved deeply becomes a part of us" yours in sorrow and grief